Should I let my ex back in my life?
Q. Trying to make a long story short: My ex is about 5 yrs younger than me. When we met he seemed sincere. However, he lied very badly and in the result it cost me. He claimed he wanted to be with me and granted he was younger seemed to be very mat...
A. 4 September 2010: I think deep down you know what you should do.
You broke up for a reason, reasons that you clearly remember quite well. If he's matured great! Let him pay you back and keep it civil. Leave it all in the past.
Your life only goes in one dire... (read in full...)
Seeing recent ex with a new man and I felt my chest had exploded!
Q. Thanks to anyone who reads this, cos I kinda just freaked out! I saw my ex with her a new boyfriend that I didn't know about. It caught me completely off guard and I felt like my chest exploded. She definitely saw me and we've been broken up f...
A. 13 November 2008: Thanks Icelordess, Teacake and especially Sinva. It's good to know other people go through the same crap in life. I really just want to put this girl behind and find someone new. I can't go on being worried that she's gonna walk around the next ... (read in full...)
Nice guys always finish last?
Q. Hi all, This question has been tearing me apart time and time again. Please bear with me, as this will be a long post. Is it true that, no women will ever want to be with a nice guy? I don't consider myself 100% nice, I am not overly r...
A. 4 August 2008: Hi There, Like you, I thought about this many times in the past and I completely understand this problem. However like most issues, it’s not complicated and is actually Very Simple. The overall problem is this; women like nice guys but don’t R... (read in full...)
I'm feeling distanced from my girlfriend, what do I do?
Q. My girfriend and i have been together for around 5 months. But we have been kind of dating for around 8 or 9. In the past month i have felt a lot of seperation from her to me. I work all day come home and only want to be with her. She is all i think ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hey man sorry to hear about your situation; we’ve all been here at some point.
Agreeing with the first poster, this situation is very common and I agree with everything he said. You have basically just described my last relationship with a girl I... (read in full...)
I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?
Q. It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I ...
A. 8 July 2008: No problem Solidus, hang in there man. Just get yourself back in those trenches and try to find that new girl. Good luck with the future, best wishes M][KE... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling hurt by what this guy does?
Q. I need advice on how to stop feeling hurt by what this guy does. This guy i know uses girls for attention..it looks like he likes them because he touches them, hugs them, goes to parties with them (one girl in particular now) but since he's single, ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hey, I'm sorry your hurting...
Unfortunately in life both boys and girls do this.
However more often than not even if both people understand they are in a casual relationship. At least one of them usually starts to develop more intense feelings... (read in full...)
I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?
Q. It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I ...
A. 7 July 2008: Oh brother I've been here!
I agree with StudentOfLife - "You'll never forget your first real relationship with a girl"
Being honest you always carry a piece of your first love around with you. In some respects the experience you gain, forms ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I'm falling for another guy. What should I d?
Q. okay well i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, and i love him, but ive known this other guy for 5 years, and im falling for him. i broke up with my boyfriend once because of it, but i guess i was scared of being alone so i asked him back out...
A. 7 July 2008: Hey, sorry to hear about your situation...
If you think in perspective, it sounds like you wont be with your boyfriend forever. If you have feelings for another guy and can see it going somewhere then be fair to your boyfriend. Have a chat wit... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because he's afraid our relationship will lead to marriage! What do I do now?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. Although we tried to remain friends, it didn't quite work out because he's been pretty undecisive regarding whether or not he wanted to get back toghether. As a result, we've stopped ...
A. 7 July 2008: Hey, I'm about the same age as you and have been in a similar situation. So I hope what I say helps... Loads of people our age, just want have fun and have no thought of a serious relationship yet. And to be honest you cant blame them; it's the b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a big flirt and I get jealous!
Q. I have a boyfriend and he's a flirt a big one. I didn't mind at first but when the girl's get to flirty and friendly with him i do get jealous sometimes when he flirts back. I don't know if it last being with him i do love him and i don't want to ...
A. 3 July 2008: I understand your situation, I have dated a girl who was a major flirt myself.
If you love him and ask him to stop, he should understand what you stay and stop to respect you. It's very normal to get jealous so don't let him convince you that you... (read in full...)
My best friend snogged my ex since a couple of months! Is this a betrayal of a friend? I don't know what to think!
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend were together for about 2 years and split up just a few months ago. My best friend told me today that she snogged him today and i really don't know how i feel. I still love my ex to pieces but don't want to tell him this. To ...
A. 3 July 2008: I'm sorry to hear about your situation.
If you friend was single and had true feelings for your ex, then maybe you could understand her actions. However she is not and has betrayed your trust and her own boyfriends.
If she is your best-friend... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 13 January 2008: Hi to everyone who helped me with advice before I just have an update. I just got back to university yesterday and had a great night out with all my friends who all supported me and my decision. However today the girl i was seeing, said she... (read in full...)
She acts like we are a couple, holding hands, cuddling. It would be great if we'd be together, but she already has a bf!
Q. I have a friend from uni who i've known for just over a year. She started with her boyfriend about the same time I met her, didn't bother me to start with, I wasn't really attacted to her. During this time she tried to kiss me but I turned away. ...
A. 11 January 2008:
If she has been doing this for a year I would be careful, you don’t want to get ahead of yourself, she will KNOW what she is doing to you. Be wary!!!
Some girls get on really well with male friends, but will only view them as friends beca... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 10 January 2008: Thank you for your responses, they have helped put things in perspective for me. I still feel bitter towards how cold she is being but I suppose it just reflects our relationship. Also because she lives so close I will find it hard to socialize with ... (read in full...)
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